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Hi! I just clipped one of my articles in my Successful Marriage Tip blog about "Problems when you marry your Best Friend". One of the highlights there was the fact that it may be difficult to distinguish between loving each other and being in love with each other. Now, if you are given the chance, would you marry your best friend? And why or why not? Thanks!

hi am joachim and u

If I had a chance, I would definitely marry my best friend because there would be an automatic deep, mutual respect between us and the kind of love (that a marriage would need) would develop over time.

I did. :-)

Same here! Think about it. You have to live with this person. Every friggin day, there she is. You turn the corner, she's there. After work, you come home, she's there. Next day comes, she's there. She's everywhere.

At the same time, you get to hang out with your best friend every friggin day. Bad day at work? She's there to listen. Have a hard decision to make, she's there to help weigh the options. Feeling down? She's there to remind you of all the reasons she married you. Ran out of toilet paper? Trust me, you'll be glad that person on the other side of the door is your best friend.

- Ryan

I did also. I agree with momadvice can't really see not marrying someone that wasn't my best friend and once we actually got together (insert a bit of the friends will they won't they story sage until we gave into it) haven't looked back - marriage and life aren't easy and having your best friend there with you helps beyond words.

I agree with what was said here! I think it speaks volumes that if you were to choose one person to spend the rest of your life with it would be with the one whose personality is most compatible with yours. By definition that is certainly your best friend. :)

Hi! It seems that all of the current reponses here are affirmative. Well, I hope I could also hear some contradiction so that we can see the two sides of the coin.
Thanks to all you above there.

all squared away on the marrying my best friend over here...

we're almost inseparable...almost

I think sexual attraction and compatability are also very important in a marriage and sometimes that doesn't come in the same package with "best friend." So, I'd just say yes, by all means marry your best friend, but make sure you also like sleeping with them too.

I did... best of freinds for over 5 years, now married for over 5 years.. together 11+ years. Its been wonderful and I wouldn't have it any other way.. I tried marrying someone before not my best friend.. and it was not worth it.

My partner is my best friend. She's been there when I need her. She's been a thorn on my side when she's having fun. She's crazy and unique enough that we bypass all the cloud 9's in the relationship and get down to the things that matter.

I think that's what a relationship should be about. Sure, the cloud 9 moments are great, but to think you're going to be spending the rest of your life with someone. I rather have that someone watch my back. You can't have any better than a best friend.

why not marry your best friend, my 1st wife is not mine never was
dont trust her, can't talk to her, wish i had married my best friend
could laught and talk and share things with her.
drink and have a great time loving every minute of it.
not like it is now. cool as the south pole. and no laughts left
never do anything together, cool as wisconsin winters
no fun anymore, to think of it never was fun
dull dull dull for get any sex what was the question
oh yes marry the one you love not the one your with .

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