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Am I a jerk?

Written By Josue on Oct. 3, 2006.

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There's a girl I've known for a couple of months, she's hot but she's too annoying. She's all over me every time we run into each other at a club. She really wants to be with me, like in a relationship, I kind of knew this considering the kind of girl she is. A few days ago we were in this club, and I managed to get her to have sex with me that night, then I told her it was a mistake and it shouldn't happen again.

I just wanted to fuck her, as I said, she is really annoying and I can't stand talking to her too often. So this brings the question, am I a jerk for doing that?

Are you honest and you say you don't want a relationship or do you lead her to think one thing when you mean another?

Cause if you were honest then she had sex thinking she could change you so no, you weren't a jerk.

Of course I detest this type of woman so I might not be objective...

I wasn't honest, if I had made it clear it was just sex, she wouldn't have put out. I think I just answered my own question.

Just point her to you One Night Stands post. It was a public service announcement. Geez, she needs to get with the program.

And I agree with Tyme. You're only a jerk if you lied or manipulated her with delusions of a relationship in order to have sex with her. Otherwise, you're two mutually consenting adults. No harm, no foul.

Oops...well, um...hey, I tried. :) I don't see you as a jerk though because I find it hard to believe she really thought something more permanent would come out of it. There are always signs.

Yeah you're right. It still was lame to do that. But hey the sex was good.

But you know you can't ever have sex with her again, right? Unless you want lots of drama.

Oh I'm fully aware of that. It's alright.

While we were having sex, she was talking about her work and how she was stressed out and shit, like, hello!.

WTF? Naw, she's not good enough. Let's move on to the hot Beyonce looking woman.

Why do women do that? Aaaggh!

I KNOW RIGHT!

Haha, that's your fault for not giving it to her then. She had to entertain herself in some fashion.

No no, trust me, she's just annoying like that.

Or you could please her so much talking is the last thing on her mind...

Umm yea, you're a dick for what you did....obviously this girl likes(d) you, and you took advantage of the situation....not saying that she's not to blame too because she is but, dude, come on.....find another girl to fuck....

This isn't a serious question is it?

ha ah aha ...yes you are a fuken chuavinist pig.... kidding about the pig part.. but yes i woudl say you are a jerk only if the sex was on the preception that you were going to have a relationship with her afterwords....

anyways; curious to know what her reaction was... ha ha ah this is so funny..

So was the point of this whole Note to brag that you had sex? It seems that way. This perception, coupled with your childish "Fuck Bush" Note leads me to believe you're not only a jerk, but also pathetically immature.

"I wasn't honest, if I had made it clear it was just sex, she wouldn't have put out. I think I just answered my own question. "

Sorry, but you just answered your own question. LOL

Yeap, you're a jerk.
But hey... look at it this way.

You wouldn't be the first! LOL

=P

You are more than a jerk. You're a pig. You remind me of those characters from Saturday Night Fever. John Travolta and that pathetic woman in love with him. You know she was really into you, why do you have to be such an asshole about it. You're on here asking AFTER THE FACT if it was wrong or not. Please, you know it was wrong. Grow some balls. Next time if a person wants something from you that you don't want from them, don't just take what you want out of it and cast them aside. Don't be a coward. I hope she gave you crabs at least :0)

blueblogging16: No, she didn't give me crabs. Thanks for the nice words ;).

Alday: No it wasn't. Who brags about sex? Everyone gets laid dude, that's nothing new.

Bonita, yeah lol

Josue: why do random girls insist on attacking you?

Sigh.

As long as she is a willing participant, I don't think you're a jerk. People are responsible for defining their own boudaries. You're certainly not helping out your future self by sleeping with her, but you already know that. I've done the same thing more than once. It usually involves me wishing I hadn't done it.

Haha, man, you're my personal hero. You're not a jerk unless you flat lied to her. Being honest is the most important thing. If she didn't care though, well, you got what you wanted. That counts.

Meh, sex is sex.
BE CAREFUL OUT THERE JOSUE!
:P

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