Chixe

If she looks like Beyonce, um, of course you want her. Perfect day to do it since Fridays are GYFO.

yeah, she's black and really fucking hot.

You know what to do. :)

You will choke.

You've seen her every night you go out + she's never talked to you + she's been out on dates even after 'staring you douwn' = ... it's not looking too good ;0)

While she's been out on dates, I've been out on dates, and we've been at the same bar with our dates (I don't see her every time I go out, but I see her a lot more than I see other people). She's given me looks, the other night she was dancing with this guy and I was in the bar having a beer and she couldn't keep her eyes off me, like she was telling me something.

I know she's interested.

Man Scrivs, you're a lot of help, you know that?.

That's my form of motivation.

If she gives you all these looks and whatnot, what has stopped you from talking to her? Was she always with someone at the bar?

No she's been with her girlfriends or alone sometimes. I'm the one always with someone.

Why don't you just mosey on up to her and say, "Rule 4: yo ass is beautiful".

^ Ha!

I'm a girl. My suggestion is to pass along your number on a napkin. She can decide if she wants to call you or not. But at least you made a move. Don't sit there and think about it. You could go on craigslist and post a message about a "missed connection". She might be out there. But then again, meeting girls at bars to women only mean one thing. He's after sex, nothing more. She's just a girl at a bar, but prove to her that you're not Just A Guy At A Bar.

Thanks for your input :)

avuee that's a good suggestion. I get napkins all the time and it a discreet way to pass the number along. Friday just isn't coming fast enough.

So it's friday night, almost 7pm, I'll go to the club in a couple of hours, I'll keep you all updated ;)

Soooo....

She was with her girlfriends. I bought her a Martini, she had the drink, looked at me, smiled and I went to introduced myself. We kept on talking, had a few more drinks, (her girlfriends were gone), started dancing.. you know we got along really well.

I was pretty honest, I told her I thought she was really hot and we should go get a room. She laughed, asked me if I was in a relationship, told me she didn't want one, told me she had a 2 year old kid but was single and that as long as I didn't have a problem with that, she'd go with me anywhere. I then took her to a hotel and the rest is history.

Her name is Alex (alexa), she's 24, and it was just sex, no strings attached. :) So yes, I finally had her.

And they all lived happily ever after! haha, nice, Josue

What ever happened to romance, finesse, has the whole world gone crazy or am I the only one who gives a shit about the rules?

I the only one

There are plenty of people like you (I've been with my girlfriend for almost four years, if that counts for anything). I don't think one single 9rules Notes page gives a complete view of opinions of the whole world, haha.

Andrew, no that's great, just not what I'm looking for right now.

Finally the update! Good job Josue - sorry I doubted you :0)

So, it was just sex?? I thought there might be more there?

"I'm not a pimp"

RIGHT..

He's from Costa Rica, LOTSA ZOMBIE SEX DOWN THERE.

Totally Kristin....dudes a complete player.....

She's not a puppet or an object. You don't have to "have her".

Actually, I really had to. Just as bad as she wanted to "have me".