Chixe

A rabbit and a human being; yes, I can understand why it feels dangerous. It's good to know that you also somehow, tentatively, understand that your future together is quite untenable.
My advice would be to take it as it comes. It is never going to amount to more than a few snatched moments together. Perhaps there will be some snapshots at the end of it, which you could keep and weep over in private, or, perhaps, sell.
But don't expect sympathy and understanding from the wider world. You are going against nature and that makes others feel insecure and, consequently, violent.

I agree. The stolen seconds are and always will be important, but he will never join you for Christmas or be able to be there for you when you had a rotton day and you want nothing more than a hug at 6pm. Be extremely careful and realistic please.

No, sympathy is not what I am looking for. Only mere identification of the fact that this is a reality and relationships happen in many ways even ones that are not planned or approved of. The world is not fabricated with only bible thumping Christians, that look down on everyone and submit in typical dream killer format. Chemical reactions of two different minds that consume the entirety without the other really knowing and just in a brief scattered stare could read each other minds to complete one visual of surrender. This is so not my norm, but this is pure power. So many people in this world but only a few will really scratch the surface on this one. Appreciate the effort.

Behind every great man stands an amazing woman.

- Risky Rabbit

I think you're quick to get defensive against those who say they don't think this will work. One doesn't have to be a conservative "bible-thumping Christian" or a person who always bends to societal norms to understand that time and again, whether right or wrong, this sort of thing rarely works. If "nothing is perfect," and everything is a dramatic play (an act, in other words), from the start, you have even more stacked against this relationship you desire. It doesn't sound to me, from your contrasting thoughts in your original post, that he is, in fact, "everything beautiful in this world."

So, you ask, can your feelings be real; and yes, they can. Yet every day we have feelings that are either insightful or illogical, uplifting or debilitating. The real question is not whether your feelings and ideals are real. The real question is whether they are realistic, logical and going to bode well for you. There are times to act according to our emotions, and there are times to not. It's a tricky thing to get the timing down right.

I get the feeling that you have thought about this a lot with your heart. Maybe it is time to think about it more with your head. If so many things are going wrong now, even to the point of your saying neither of you is in a position to make changes or make this work, there is a huge chance that this will not contribute to your happiness in the future. Given that things are so seemingly not going to work in the long run, perhaps it is time to move on, even, so you do not cause yourself anymore emotional distress now or later.

P.S. - Beside every great man, an amazing woman should stand.

Easy cowboy...., just being creative. No offense taken, really. As frustrating as life gets I am always open and optimistic.

Greatly Appreciated,

- Risky Rabbit

Can I just say that you are absolutely close. The quotation? "right on." I'm just a bad bunny......

Your language sounds familiar, and maybe you've just hit too close to home.

Imagine given this enormous puzzle to put together maybe 10,000 pieces or so, and you have a certain amount of time to put it all together. Keep in mind it's black and white musical notes. Your looking for all the black because it stands out the most but really the white edges are keeping it all together.

This can just not make any sense, or it's as clear as crystal.

- Risky Rabbit

I'm not a fan of spontaneous passion and have no patience with people who think their overactive hormones are enough of an excuse to enter into something in which the consequences could be severe, or which would in the end only lead to doom and more whining.

Relationships aren't mystical they are hard work from what I can see.

What you're talking a bout seems to be the selfish act of a child or children who can't control himself or themselves. I think relationships belong to adults who know how to handle them, when to stay, when to go, and when never to begin.

And I haven't opened a Bible since I left the Roman Catholic Church, in high school.

Relationships are hard work I agree, and in many ways I'm glad this is what it is and nothing more. But I'm a person of many occasions and situations which yes are risky and this is my way which makes me who I am. If we all shared that same thoughts, opinions and social lives their would be no diversity. Yes, in my opinion/experiences a certain percentage of religious people are judgmental because they chose that path of perfection “Of God ." What I was aiming for was to find others like myself who has shared the same situation. I myself have belief.

Greatly Appreciated,

- Risky Rabbit

Feed me c-more.

I live life a bit differently, this will just be an interesting read if you don't think the same:

Love isn't a short term thing. I think of love to be long term. Love is when someone truly finds out (after a length of time in a friendly relationship) that the other really is the person who could stay with him/her for a long time. It's not about that really cute guy you see in the club or that girl with the nice ass at the diner. There's always the other side to everything and looks are always deceiving.

Pickagun,

Your saying, that we identify bonds between people as love in some cases because it's what we need for the moment because were empty in the areas that are all of a sudden being satisfied. If friendship isn't present than eventually the bond that exists with the phi-sod of sex, money, looks or etc. will be broken and the only thing that will be left is annoyance because you cannot break free from this person that was just a filler to begin with.

Married couples that have been together for a period of time and who are “friends” also depart because why? The filler. It's just (too) much to really get involved with this subject.

Friendships are nice and their are no expectations to fulfill (just to be a good friend.) That way you can focus other areas to improve. This is logical.

- RR

I really can't say much on this cuz I haven't faced such a similar situation before. It's either 'all for it' or 'nothing at all'. But I had like to add this one little bit that I had picked up from somewhere:

Each human chooses a path that they think is best at that time... That is the sadness of humankind...

Though it needn't be categorized as the sadness of humankind in it's entirety but this does turn out to be one of the downfalls, succeeding impulsive decisions.

In my case I ended up making a rather impulsive decision and started a relation which wouldn't last. Cuz from what I have seen from almost every relation around me is that they have a situational start. The need(s) at that point in time line provide the steam for the pistons to move. And as the needs dissipate, the heat dies out and things are at a standstill.

So here I agree with Pickagun that "Love isn't a short term thing". Something that fuels us till the end. Now, a new discussion could arise at this moment. How to identify that long term fuel? But I had rather not dwell on that for now.