Chixe Thread: Do You Kiss on the First Date?

Do You Kiss on the First Date?

Jessy1002 — Thu, 13 Mar 2008 20:32:22

i didnt kiss my boyfriend, of a year, on our first date.....however, on the third date i was ripping his clothes off on a beach under the stars...so...i mean...maybe kissing on the first date would have balanced things out a little....

Do You Kiss on the First Date?

solo — Mon, 25 Feb 2008 07:07:41

If I am really attracted to the person then the polarity is too strong and a kiss does happen..

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RightOn — Thu, 17 Jan 2008 03:10:18

I've never "dated"... but honestly, I'm with the "moment" folks.

You can't really say "yes" because if you go on 30 different dates, by your rule you HAVE to kiss all 30 of them and honestly I've hung out with some people I've REALLY liked but not had ANY desire to go beyond "hangin".

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montoya — Thu, 17 Jan 2008 02:59:13

You gotta get to know a person before you start with the kissing!

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sebastienb — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 09:28:48

I don;t usually think about it while on the date on my past dates i've always kissed on the first date, felt awkward once always ends well.

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dreaming_awake — Sun, 30 Dec 2007 01:12:56

I agree with mugambo. Also first date kiss is sort of a situation where you have given in to physical temptations. If that person is the one to be in your life then starting off physically is not that great. My opinion is from experience. But then results may vary.

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mugambo — Fri, 28 Dec 2007 02:27:24

I would say no. A snog shows that you've given in. A peck on the cheek leaves you longing for more.

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SimplyJessica — Thu, 06 Dec 2007 22:49:54

I would kiss on the first date. Why not?

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curious — Wed, 05 Dec 2007 21:23:29

If you like each other then hell yes!!!!!!!!
Kissing is one of the most teasingly sexy things you can do when you have only just met someone.
It does not mean you are easy you still have your clothes on!!!
You can control how it goes and leave them wanting more.

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livespermdonor — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 12:16:42

Sure... depends... no... why not.

I dont know about you, but I marry while impregnating over the phone. ;) On special this week for $500/ml. :D

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Josue — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 22:33:19

yea i do

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itsjos — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 18:19:26

i havent dated in 3 years... i know i have before so i would say if it felt right i would

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Sebastiano — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 14:55:01

I think its about habits :)

Why about habits? I mean...can't be a bad habit to kiss... is it? It might be a bad habit if you rush it, but yes, if there is the right connection between 2 people why not kiss on the first date, btw my record is to kiss a girl after 2 minutes , the relationship lasted 10 mins though.... :S

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jauhari — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 13:58:46

I think its about habits :)

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technics — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 15:37:22

kiss when the time is right :)

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Mat_ — Sun, 21 Oct 2007 13:41:31

It's funny to read all of you. I see that finally, even if there is a sea or an ocean between us, it's not so different.

There is no rule for me too. The feeling, just the feeling :)

And for the one who understand, this is a sentence from a book i love ("Cyrano de Bergerac" of Edmond Rostand ):

Un baiser, qu'est-ce ? Un serment fait d'un peu plus près, un aveu qui veut se confirmer, un point rose qu'on met sur l'i du verbe aimer ; c'est un secret qui prend la bouche pour oreille.

Sorry, my english isn't good enough to translate it from french.

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LondonGirl — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 19:59:03

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. But I am coming to the conclusion that you've much more chance of a second date if you don't.

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vlado — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 17:36:38

Saw the topic and the first thing that came to mind was Kevin "Bloody" Wilson's "Courting Song"*... which was quite popular with the boys here in Australia back in the late '80's.

* Not actually the real title, but thought it safer not to throw around the expletives on my first day :) I'm sure you can find the lyrics if you google it.

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xirclebox — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:06:30

it would always depend on the vibe of the date and the woman i was with. Sometimes there was that connection and at times there was nothing. Also depended on what as for dinner :)

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PRDesign — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 03:03:16

Don't set rules! Play as it needs to be.

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anime_miz — Mon, 12 Mar 2007 06:03:06

I think kissing matters kinda.. guess you have to be boyfriend or girlfriend to kiss on the lips, but on the cheeks it has to be friends.. but mostly I hug my friends.

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ErinR — Mon, 12 Mar 2007 05:56:38

It's all about the vibe you have with the other person, as other people have said. I've kissed people when it wasn't even a date because it felt right.

That said, if I like a guy, sometimes it's nice to make him wait a little. Adds to the mystery. But even then, it's going to happen by the end of date #2.

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Ollie — Mon, 12 Mar 2007 02:55:25

does that mean he's not into me or he just didn't want to kiss? argh!

It meant he was a typical guy and probably didn't know just how appropriate it was. I'd say he was into you because he was fine with everything else before. I would say give him another chance, but make it clear you like him from the get go to ensure you both know where you stand.

A hug is a sign of respect in my book, by the way.

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avuee — Sun, 11 Feb 2007 07:03:15

I have kissed on the first date, and had sex too.

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RuDdY — Wed, 17 Jan 2007 04:57:06

I agree with anyone that said "when the moment feels right." I have had kisses on the first date, and on the other hand, it has taken me over a month for the first kiss. Depends on the 'moment.'

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JustinKistner — Wed, 17 Jan 2007 02:41:31

Friends with benefits are pretty damn rad. Just sayin'.

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stefani — Wed, 17 Jan 2007 02:25:05

Friends with benefits.

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JustinKistner — Wed, 17 Jan 2007 01:36:43

Tyme, I call that sex with strangers. I'm usually not into, although I can think of 1 great exception. Oh man,....what a night that was. ;)

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JustinKistner — Wed, 17 Jan 2007 01:24:39

Good point stefani!

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stefani — Wed, 17 Jan 2007 01:14:48

I agree Justin, but as a general rule, I wont go out with someone "unless" I want to kiss them... :)

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JustinKistner — Tue, 16 Jan 2007 02:12:29

I'm with Rich that it's not about kissing on the first date or not, it's about when it feels right. I've kissed girls on the first night we met, which is before an official date goes down. Then I've kissed girls for the first time after three dates. I think the biggest thing is that connecting with people usually doesn't fall cleanly into first dates and neither does an appropriate time to kiss someone. I'd say it's bad to have a rule that you won't as well as a rule that you must.

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Tyme — Tue, 16 Jan 2007 01:48:47

Thank you stefani. Amazing I do a podcast about sex and relationships lol. ;)

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stefani — Tue, 16 Jan 2007 01:38:30

Good for you sweetie! Its just a personal choice....

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Tyme — Tue, 16 Jan 2007 01:35:28

When I "date" I'm already friends with the guy so I don't mind kissing him. I can't kiss a stranger no matter how cute he is. I don't do intimate things with strangers, but I don't have any issues with people who don't share my view because I realize I'm the minority. :)

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Oli — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 23:36:33

Unlike Rich though, I have the certificate to prove it...

Oh no... That was a dream...

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stefani — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 23:25:41

Oh my dear Rich, EVERYONE say's they're amazing kissers....:)

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Rich — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 23:18:30

You should all know I'm an amazing kisser...

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stefani — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 23:12:27

Or if they cram their tongue down your throat....blech.

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ryanarrowsmith — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 22:23:27

I'm with Stef. Don't waste your time on the second date if they are a drooler. Or have bad breath.

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stefani — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 22:01:15

Yes and you need to get to know if they kiss well... :)

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sparklette — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 21:27:18

Generally the second date onwards. Like someone said above, a first date is supposed to be casual, and in some cases about getting to know each other.

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stefani — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 21:27:09

Ummm all the time?

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ryanarrowsmith — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 21:24:48

Heck yeah! :)

Well, like Rich said, it depends on the vibe. If both parties are comfortable, I don't see a problem with it. There's no official rule book on dating. You just gotta go with your gut. Or go with the wine you drank too much of.

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Rich — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 16:30:57

I kiss when I kiss. There is no rule or pattern - it happens when it happens.

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AndrewWee — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 14:53:53

As soon as I can.
As often as I can.

But seriously, I think it's a matter of personal chemistry.

If both of you have rapport, there's a definite connection and both of you are willing, I'd say, Go for it!

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joshawesome — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 09:36:30

Generally I don't kiss on the first date. I mean, it's supposed to be laid back. I don't want to have to worry about anything like that. There have been times where I have kissed on the first date, but not often.

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Anonymous — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 08:27:43

I have a weird proclivity in this respect. I think my mouth is very important, because I eat with it; therefore I find kissing to be an extremely intimate act, so the answer is rarely.

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JPhill — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 08:19:52

If all goes well, then why not. I've done it before. As long as both parties don't feel that it's rushed and the moment is right, I see nothing wrong with that.

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MillenniumMommy — Mon, 15 Jan 2007 08:16:16

Does it matter? Have you ever? Which date do you kiss on?