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I could have had sex with an ex recently. She was drunk and barely conscious though, so I didn't.

Who hasn't had sex with the ex?

They're good for the "between boyfriend" bedding, where you sorta-one night stand, but he's already seen you naked, so you don't have to deal with that akwardness.

Except then they think you might get back with them, and call you a skanky slut when you don't. Or, that might be just me.

Yea, I've totally had sex with my ex. Probably not the best idea right after you've broken up and you're trying to get over them, but still fun none-the-less.

Yep all the time! And not because he's great in bed, cuz he isnt THAT great but because he's passionate and caring...means alot even if we are broken up.....

I am guilty, but given my experiences, I wouldn't recommend it. They're exes for a reason.

Word to jen.

Props to you all.....i agree that you shouldnt, but its so much fun, until you just dont feel for them anymore, and then sex with them is kind of nauseating, especially if there are bad feelings attached. Which is what i recently experienced.

Yea, it's definitely not the best thing. With my ex, we still have feelings for each other, or I still have feelings for her. It's a hard call really, and one that shouldn't be taken lightly. I kind of regret still having a sexual relationship with her just for the pure fact that it makes moving on so much harder.

But...eh...

Interesting.

I don't have trouble keeping my pants on in any circumstance so no not here.

well good for you cooper....you must be a saint. or your ex must be terrible.

summer 1002:

That is a pretty strange thing to say.

I have always been under the impression that most people who have any sense of self would think more than twice about fucking an ex, or fucking anyone to begin with.

Not necessarily cooper....alot of us have high sexual drives and at times our desires get the best of us...its only human....:)

Cooper:

i guess most of us have a lack of "sense of self" then. Usually leading ourselves into more pain and suffering, but yet, still succumbing to the weight of our desire even if we know it is wrong. I think its awesome you have the opinion that you do. You are obviously stronger, and smarter than i.

The only reason i wrote this post was to see who else could sympathize with the mistakes i have made by having sex with my ex after we ended. Seems like alot of people do.

How many of us sleep with our exes?

I sleep with all my binaries... Every night.

hahaha! GO OLI!

so when you guys say you sleep with your ex....were you initially the breakee or the breaker in terms of the heart?

Yes, with my ex-boyfriend who was of nearly two years. When ever we got together we had sex. And lots of it. Even when were having an off moment we got together for sex.

The problem with writing a post like that is that unless you specifically write....

"The only reason I am writing this post is to see who else will sympathize with the mistakes I have made by having sex with my ex after we ended."

But that is not what you asked.

That would have prevented me from saying anything because obviously I don't sympathize. I am very judgmental and I can't help but comment like that when I hear people talking about sleeping with other people as it if was no big thing.

I also have a great fear of germs.

Hopefully one day I will be free of this fear of germs and I too will be able to sleep with several X's and the X's of other people as well. ;)

I have slept with my ex...and I mean sleep, no sex involved. The relationship between us was complicated enough. The love was still there. But as we all know...love is never enough in a relationship.

She broke up with me, and I still slept with her. It was a very complicated relationship for a bit.

Not really.

I'm not into casual sex but I have slept with an ex after we broke up but I would not do it again. It wasn't the same because the feelings were different. I'm friends with my ex's and my friendship with them means more. To me, sex is the most intimate thing I can physically do with a person so I am extremely picky about who I do it with.

But the truth is when the heart is involved sometimes we do things we wouldn't normally do. I might not be lack of self but more hope overpowering common sense. :)

I noticed thatafter i broke up with my ex, i became more into casual sex..thinking it would make me feel better.

I thought that casual sex would too. I been on like two dates since I've broken up with my ex, but I could never bring myself to have sex with a stranger. I almost had a one night stand also, but I kept thinking "If she were sober, she might not sleep with me, so why should I take advantage of that." And I just drove her home. But, I pretend to be a man whore. It just sounds awesome...man...whore...awesome.

LOL.....i like you JOshAwesome

and also, its good that you cant just sleep around. My heart has become less calloused than it was when him and i first broke up, so i've settled down now...but i still can drive thru those one night stands with no problem. I just dont now.

Yea, I think my "problem" with having sex with strangers then is that I really wanted to just be with her, and I couldn't make the pain go away if I slept with someone else, it would make it worse. Now that I'm more emotionally over her, I think I could possibly have sex with someone I'm dating, but I still couldn't have a one night stand. Unless of course say...Kate Hudson came around...I would be her sock puppet.

And Summer, for the record, I think you are awesome. Word. 'Nough said.

Well thank you Josh Optimus Prime. Im glad you think so. And thanks for being celebate. At least one of us are.

Ah yea...but is it really by choice? Hm...deep thoughts.

I dont even have an ex. Been with the same girl for the past 2.5 yrs. But being a guy, I really wouldn't mind doing it.

Good G-d NO! To me, intimacy is all about respect and the relationship ended for a reason

Yeah, but when you get used to sleeping with someone, isnt it hard to not go back....its only like 2nd nature.

No way, thank you very much. The relationship ended, and that is that.

Summer1002: No, not for me, it isn't difficult. It isn't second nature, to me...the relationship ended, period the end.

Yea, it isn't really 2nd nature...I mean, for me sex is connected to emotion. I guess if you have some emotional connection to your ex then that's a different story, like when I slept with my ex. But hell, I'm a man whore. I sleep with everyone. Or will sleep with everyone.

hey everyone! i just found this page by googling "how to get my ex to sleep with me"... i think i'm a bad person.

oh man my ex dumped me and yea i slept with her but she cried during the whole thing :\ YIKES!

My girl has just split with me and we have talked about just having sex on a casual basis because the sex was a1 she is fine but im still hurting a little so wanted to know what you guys thought??? Good idea? Bad idea?