Chixe

In all my years of being in and around the game, I can only say one thing.

Anything is possible.

Then again, usually when you have sex with someone, it's not without placing some kind of definition upon that person. Some people place an emotional attachment to sex. Some people just think it's casual fun. So at the end it depends who you hooked up with.

Though my experience though, it's the things you always take with a pinch of salt rather than thinking too much about it that always seems to work. So I'd say take it day after day and see where it goes from there. Who knows what might happen?

Napfisk: That's entirely up to you. That's why it's called abstract. Every one of us has a different definition of what sexy means. I don't want the general vote on what sexy means. I want to know what it means...to you.

I'm celebrated the 10th anniversary of my 13th birthday in July. That should account for something. :)

What about:

"It's hard to know what she's thinking about. Every time I caress in her naked body in bed or when she throws a fit over the disagreements we stubbornly cling on to, part me of always wonders what she's thinking. It's not that I don't understand women, it's just that for the first time in my life, I don't understand this woman, especially after what she said last night..."

You can be descriptive while being vague as well. Where does that stand on privacy?

Well Abi, looks like you're one of the people I was referring to. Those that don't feel comfortable with the fact that their personal life can be plastered online for people to see.

For you, it's a privacy thing right?

Karmatose: Haha, nice save. :P

Just say he calls too much. If you got no reason to beat around the bush don't. If he still calls too much. Ignore and he'll get the point.

I've written about it before in this post, but I'll sum it up in a gist since that's a pretty detailed list.

1. With a sense of humour, the kind that even you can't understand why.
2. Loves danger and faced up to it before bearing the price they paid.
3. Killing edge that will most likely mean you could be screwed at the end.
4. Geeks with an curiosity that can't be quenched.
5. Securely knowing what they want and would stop at nothing to have it.

They can be bitches or snobs to people. But maybe because I've never cared about how people look on the outside. Only what comes after I start going deeper.

Same goes for blogging, when people blog, it's only one part of themselves. Not to say it's a false part of themselves, but it's only the perspective they intend to show.

Most people don't know this. Some, especially the more experienced bloggers know how to mask this and what they want to show.

That's why I date ice queens. It's the challenge that people don't usually put up with that turns plenty of people off.

Then again, being icy and a blogger. Interesting combination.

Avuee: You're not alone with that Nutella and Banana on bread. My girlfriend does that all the time. I thought it was weird. Turns out I like it it too. :)

Peanut butter and cheese sandwich eaten with spaghetti and bolognese sauce.

Then there is the coke with ice cream on top.

Well, I'd date them if they are cool cats. Ice Queens are my personal choice anyway. :)

You can't really be nice in something like this. You're friends and friends do deserve to heard the blunt truth when they need to. The thing that's really important is what you do AFTER you give the blunt truth.

Some get angry and don't hang out on principle. But its always best to keep going keeping whatever you said between both of you. Your friend would eventually understand that you're expression of concern wouldn't affect your friendship at all. It's just something that needed to be said. The rest of your friend's life, whether he or she listens or not, is in their hands. The best you can do is stand by it.

Well it sucks and blows. Ironically when you're not in any position to get down to it.

Over the years, I've learnt one thing. Speak your mind, but be there regardless. Even if you don't like the people they are with, it's all the more reason you should be with them when the chips are down.

There is a fine line between meddling and being a friend and the thing is to never ever think that your friend needs help unless they ask. The best we can do is speak our minds and let them make the choices (good or bad) for themselves.

If we're right, ultimately, we're going to be there for them and that's what matters. If we're not, well...live and let die and remember, there is nothing wrong with seeing a friend happy, even if we hate the other person to bits.

That's an interesting question...would it take the fun out of it...or would it add to it. I think it would add a different set of challenge to the relationship. One that has to be built on open communication, acceptance and trust.

The question I guess at the end of this is, how many of us trust AND accept our partners explicitly without doubt and question even down to the worst qualities in a person?

If you have that in a relationship and nothing can drive it apart. Not even blogging openly.

My girlfriend dreamt that she was knocking a nail with a hammer. Needless to say that nail ended up being my head.

Not all dreams can be dangerous though. On the other hand I dream about other things with my girlfriend. Needless to say we had fun that night even though we were both half asleep.

Reading what each other has expressed when times are good can never be a bad thing. What happens when things go sour and you need to express it?

For personal bloggers, a lot of that expression comes from your blogs, for the world to see, including your partner. Now that can be a very bad idea most of the times. Not if you want the relationship to survive. Not all relationships are built on absolute trust and acceptance.

A wolf. Always wanted to be a grey wolf. Savage, wise, lone hunter of the wild.

Failing that of course.

A penguin. You can't get any cuter than that.

I'm a poor Uni student. So in about a week, it's about $110 AUD, give or take 5 bucks. $80 for the rent with utilities included. $30 for the food I share with my girlfriend. $25 bucks at the month end for internet and phone bills. I do live with my girlfriend and another housemate so that divides the bills well.

$10 bucks for gas every few days or I walk or cycle wherever I want. It's a poor life, but it's a good life. :)

Good sex works wonders, but if all else fails, warm milk does the trick. It'll help synthesize the chemicals needed to put you to sleep.

I used to get that response all the time. So much so that my family started to offer me alcohol because they thought it was weird that I still haven't drank at all even though I was 21. It was nothing to do with religion, it was simply because I didn't like the taste.

Then my ex broke up with me. Now my mother gets worried I might turn into a full blown alcoholic at the rate I'm going.

I tell you the funny things that family can do.

How descriptive of Faggots. :)

Faggots is a type of food? I thought they were just name calling.

As a person who was raised in the country where Durians are grown, I can tell you one thing about them. They were put on this world for one reason - biological warfare.

It's thorny, it's heavy and it reeks up to 10 meters. Do NOT put this in a confined area lest you want to end up without air.

If you think that's bad, there is a traditional Durian dish in East Malaysia where they eat with rice. It's fermented durians with chilli. That's pretty much a toxic biohazard in my book. The unfortunate thing is some of my family members actually love the stuff. I'd just prefer to wear a biohazard suit near it.

Is |33t even a language? I thought it's mindless gibberish?

I don't know...4 months of grilled chicken, chips and salad. I'm a poor uni student. It makes sense.

Non-Alcoholic: Ice Cream Soda

Alcoholic: Bourbon on the rocks or with coke.

English, Mandarin, Cantonese, Malay, Japanese and a little bit of German.

Carl Jung, got to hang out with the father of modern psychoanalysts. His life is too damn interesting to pass off.

But if it was today, it'll be Adam Savage and Jamie Hyneman. Way to put science to work by blowing things up. Who wouldn't enjoy hanging out with them?

Tyme, you sound like my girlfriend. But I don't cramp her style though since she's a free spirit of a bird. I say give her all the freedom that she wants because at the end of it, as much as other guys might pan after her, as much as she may flirt and as much as she gives a loud burp after she finishes all the food I've cooked for her. I have a great time with her end of the day. That's what really matters.

I think the rule here is this, and I learnt it after my last bad breakup. If I can't find a reason to make myself happy, I don't think I can make other people happy...especially not in a relationship.

Needs before wants as I have learnt a long time ago. I think at the end of it, I'm influenced by my friends, expecially all the strong women in my life. They give me the option and then I'll just make up my own damn mind about it. :)